As I sit in a condo in Myrtle Beach today, watching my daughter and her friends fix their hair and makeup for a dance competition, I realize that I am just a normal person who is a principal. Now I always felt that way, but some things just bring the realization into more clarity. Being a dad at a dance competition is one of those things. So are mowing the lawn, snow blowing the driveway, grocery shopping, and going on vacation. It's at these times that we are most human to our students and parents because they see us in a different way than when we are at school. My wife and friends joke about how long it will take until I see a current or former student. I was given a hat by our real estate agent that just says "NEIGHBOR" on it that I wear to subdivision parties. And you know what? I think it's great that students and parents see me as just a regular person.
What do regular people do? They do great things for and with each other. They take risks and fail. They take risks and succeed. They agree. They disagree. They come together. They ask questions. They determine next steps. When regular people have a focus, like what is best for a school, imagine what can happen. So is it bad for me to be just a regular person? I think it's the best thing for our kids and our school.
The idea for this post came from my Voxer family. Here are some of their posts.