Our connection started in February of 2007 when I interviewed for my current position. I still remember sitting on a table in the library just talking. The questions didn't seem scripted. It was just an immediate connection. And we talked about kids.
Through the next 10 years, Mike has been a consistent and confident leader that I know I can rely upon. We have spoken about kids, staff, our families, our schools, and our futures. I never feel judged but I do feel pushed to be better. I hope that he feels the same about me, too.
Badger game |
Celebration Day |
Mike and I had an opportunity that I think other principals should have. We attended a national education conference together. We shared plane flights, trips on the train, a hotel room, and some of our meals. We also shared the great ideas we heard, the connections of fellow educators from across the country, and the desire to be better for our kids, our staff, and our schools.
Flight to Philadelphia |
Waiting for train in Philadelphia |
Mike and I continue to discuss our learning even weeks after the conference. And I know our learning and collaboration will continue. The reason why- We are educators who put our kids first and we want to do better for them every day. We have our stumbles along the way, but we're always there to pick one another up.
Many of us attend conferences alone, connect with some colleagues during the few days we're together, and then, most often, don't connect again for quite some time. This can, at times, stagnate our learning. That doesn't happen with Mike and me. I certainly hope that you have someone in your school community that you can rely on, and learn with like I do. And I hope that I can "Be Like Mike" for someone during the rest of my educational journey because together we are better.
Thanks, Mike!
Hi Jay! Great post. I have a Mike, but she is a Kerry! Kerry and I work at different schools and started in our district as VP's together. We phone each other on the drive to school in the morning and check in at the end of the day...and connect at various times throughout the day if need be! Most of our conversations are about kids, school and she tells me that she loves our conversations because I don't judge her. I hope that she knows how much I appreciate her as a friend and colleague...as a single admin in my building that connection has been priceless!
ReplyDeleteHere's hoping that we all find our "Mikes" in this crazy, challenging but awesome profession!
It's awesome that you have a "Mike". I am lucky that my Mike is only a 1 minute walk away.
ReplyDeleteThanks for taking the time to read my post.
Jay